Kerala is rediscovering the
virtues of the traditional Hindu marriage. A State
that had prided itself on adopting the “quickest”
marriage ceremony ever (five miutes flat; in fact,
outsiders complain thAT if you turn away for a minute,
you may miss the big moment) is now rolling out the
red carpet for elaborate traditional rituals that
is bringing in cold hard dollars and pounds.
On Feb 10, John Foreman and Nicola Pauling from the
U.K., with their roots in New Zealand, got married
at the Bolgatty Palace Hotel in Kochi to the accompaniement
of Hindu rituals. A week earlier, a sexagenarian Canadian
couple, John Grant and Judith Sketon Grant, renewed
their wedding vows after 40 years of marriage with
a traditional wedding “demo” at the Brunton Boatyard
Hotel at Fort Kochi.
These are not isolated cases, but part of a growing
trend for “global marriages,” with Indian traditions
as the focal point. In 2001 alone, the Coconut Lagoon
Hotel in Kumarakom, the Prime Minister, Atal Behari
Vajpayee’s favoured vacation spot, “hosted” three
such global marriages.
Cosmetic, exotic, flavor of the season, call it what
you will, the fact is these marriages are dead serious
business for the people involved. Especially, the
State’s hospitality industry. For the Foreman-Pauling
wedding at the Bolghatty Palace, the guests, relativs
and friends, flew in from places as far away as the
U.S., New Zealand, Australia, Belgium, France and
South Africa. The hotel bill alone came to $50,000.
For all their apparent extravagance, the couple are
no hot shots. Foreman is a pharmaceutical retailer
and Pauling a journalist with Reuters. The couple
who met two years back, chose Bolghatty Palace for
the big event after visiting the state seven months
ago. The room rent for the guests came to $2,500 lakhs
per day. The booking was for a week. And this was
not the first marriage at the hotel. A Belgian had
married an NRI according to Hindu rites last December.
The Canadian sexagenarians shelled out $15,000 for
their “marriage” and 20 guests, according to the Worlwide
Adventures India Private Limited, a Canadian subsidiary,
that managed the event. This is not a phemenon limited
to Kerala. International Travel House, the travel
wing of ITC Ltd., has also launched a wedding management
service to package “The Royal Indian Wedding.” The
service is targetted at NRIs and was introduced in
New Delhi recently. Royal Weddings (RW) has tie-ups
with the
Welcome Heritage Hotels and
some other palace hotels to organize weddings in these
upper crust venues. RW offers package deals organizing
the entire event, including a “royal procession” (baraat)
with vintage cars, liveried guards and lancers on
horseback, reception at the hotel with traditional
aarti and tilak, and grand ceremonies in the “Royal”
style.
That’s not all. The service helps client choose the
right kind of invitation cards, the sangeet and mehendi,
the grooming and the beauty treatment and the wedding
shopping. It even arranges the marriage certificates.
While the cost of a similar wedding in the United
States would work out to around $3,800 per person
per day, according to the RW, they can offer the ceremony
at around $1,900 per person per day, for a group of
10, including airfare.
But it’s not simply a matter of tourism, says Kerala’s
Director of Tourism, Alkesh Kumar Sharma, “This is
a new phenomenon which has to be encouraged not merely
for the tourism, but for spreading the values of our
civilization.”
While this may be debatable, global marriages in India
clearly appear to be the flavor of the year, at the
very least.