Can
you point out the limitations and strengths
of a larger more open-ended book format
as opposed to a more concise news report?
It’s a lot
harder, trust me! A part of the challenge
is just making sure you have done enough
research and observation to back things
up. Also, the traditional relationship
you have with sources goes out the window.
I got close to these subjects, slept over
at their houses, formed true relationships
with them and then had to step back and
tell their stories honestly and, to some
extent, dispassionately. My concern with
a book like this is that it is only read
in Indian circles. I hope it penetrates
the mainstream. Because I have worked
for mainstream publications, I think I’ve
gotten used to having readers of all kinds
react to my work. I hope that happens
here.
What have your
readers’ reactions been to the book
and specifically to its cast of characters?
People seem to be very
caught up in their lives! That’s
a good thing; it means my words formed
a connection with the characters and,
in turn, the reader.
What have the Patels’,
Kotharis’ and Sarmas’ reactions
been to their portrayals in the book?
They have been wonderful through this
process and are really to be applauded.
They had a few concerns and suggestions
for revisions. I accepted some, not others.
We still stay in touch, although not as
much as before!
How has the culture
clash between your Indian Assamese and
American worlds, formed your personality
in your perception?
Tangible examples: I
never dated in high school or even uttered
the word “boyfriend” at home,
but secretly longed for the popular people
in school to like me. My parents were
not active volunteers in the school, not
because they weren’t interested,
but I don’t know if they could relate
to the prom or football games.
We’ve overcome a lot of it now as
I turn to my parents often to get the
authentic doses of Indianness one needs
in a country that now knows Bollywood,
bindis and bhangra. My personality has
become quite chameleon-like. I adapt easily
to new situations and settings because
I lived in so many places growing up.
I retained a lot of traditional values
and have a very deep relationship with
India and my hordes of relatives who still
live there. My identity is an evolving
one that has taken me from wanting to
be a white suburban teenager who wore
only Gap to a bohemian desi who donned
flowing skirts and scarves to a tight-shirt-wearing
club-going desi diva who shook to bhangra
and hip hop.
Now I suppose I consider myself a combination
of all of my environments: Assamese, mainstream
Indian and mainstream American. In a sign
of how times are changing (and my own
self-assertion), I am also demanding more
that institutions occasionally cater to
me as well.
You have referenced
Little India magazine a few times in your
book. Do you have any special relationship
with the magazine?
No, but I admire Little
India’s work of telling stories
of a community from within that community.
They, along with Rediff.com, were the
only publication I found that had spent
some serious time in this ethnic enclave.
Do you think the
perceptions of second-generation Indian
Americans (such as yourself) about the
place of race in the American psyche,
is markedly different from those of their
parents?
I think our parents’
generation definitely experienced or currently
experience racism, but perhaps might not
readily vocalize it as we do. Remember,
we have the privilege of birthright, unaccented
English and an upbringing of Western ways.
I hope this book sheds some light on the
diversity that is the South Asian diaspora,
generationally, economically, socially.
I hope people reading the book might think
twice about the circumstances of the man
who pumps their gas or the cashier who
rings up their groceries.
Indian Americans
have often been labeled a “model
minority” but they are often also
a silent minority, hesitant to be involved
locally in politics and matters of community.
It is only recently that we see this trend
being reversed. How can we galvanize more
Indian Americans to be active participants
in their communities?
I hope this book inspires
successful Indians to strive for more
than economic equality with their neighbors.
Political parity is important. As people
like Pradip Kothari illustrate, the next
challenge for his generation, generally
an economically successful group, is to
attain political clout. For those who
don’t aspire to political office,
perhaps the answer is to find other ways
to give back to both their own community
as well as the larger one. |